49. If I Ask Her to Lend Me Something I Don’t Need?
We feel closer to those we help, so asking to borrow something, even when you don’t need it, is a completely legitimate way to flirt. In fact, it might be cuter and more effective when what you’re asking for is completely, blatantly inessential. The adorable girl in the apartment across from yours knows full well that you don’t have idea one about what to do with her cumin, but you should go ahead and confidently request it anyway. The signals will be clear.
