Am I flirting?

If you urgently need to know whether something is flirting, you're welcome to decamp to http://amiflirting.com/submit or send correspondence to amiflirting (at) tumblr.com. Will we assume you're flirting with us? Only if you want us to.
It’s sort of an unspoken thing, something a friend should pick up on. My female friends have done the same for me when I missed the attentions of my wife when one of us was away. A dab of tenderness or interest is all that’s needed; my older lady friends in particular seem to appreciate this. I don’t do it out of pity—they’re big girls, after all. I do it because they’re worth pleasing. Lord Whimsy on flirting